Hello, my name is Claudia Bobe, and im from Sibiu, Romania. I please you from the bottom of my heart to read the email until the end. I know it is long, but I had to expose more extensively the situation so you can understand me. I dared to write this mail because can no longer bear, I feel like I can no longer cope with the situatilor that I faced. I No longer know what to do, who to call, i no longer know whom to ask, and the situation is worse. If until now one year and a half ago we succeded to manage the situation, since a year and a half ago we dealing solely with problems. The problems became worst in the last two months due to reductions in pay (my husband is working in structures M.A.I.) and the fact that the health system does not have funds for settlement analysis. Currently my husband was hospitalized at Sibiu County Hospital, is suspected of Talasemie and defining analyses to determine the exact diagnosis have had to be borne by us. Because we don’t have the money we had to loan, mention the fact that he was hospitalized for emergency and I could not postpone those analyses. Given the fact that Talasemia is a hereditary disease and that our little girl was diagnosed last year in November with anemia feripriva and that the doctor which attend my husband told me that I have to do an analyse called eletroforezis hemoglobin, to my little 3 years old daughter, and I don’t have money to do that, you can realize what is in my soul.
It is frustrating, I feel with my hands tided out because the financial problems we have hinder me to start investigations. The October and the November of last year have been terrible for us, I was hospitalysed with bartholinita ac which required surgery, and then our little girl was also rushed to Hospital with fever of Pediatrics Sibiu-they have not discovered the cause of high temperature, she was only diagnosticated with anemia feripriva, they didn’t done her more detailed analysis to determine the exact cause of the fever. My husband, followed in also with a cold and he got pneumonia, because the acutisation of pneumonia he has done asthma. Our little boy was also diagnosticated with asthma.I know it seems hard to believe how in a short period of time we went through so many, but absolutely everything I have said can be verified at any time.
To face the situations I’ve told you about we had to pay only some of the utilities bills, a part from the rent, a part from the rates at banks, which rates as I have said have not been made out because we want it for us to spend without judgement, but to face the situations at the time we had passed through.
I would like to speak briefly to you about me so you can understand all the reasons that made me to wrote to you, so you can understant why I dare to write this e-mail. In the last 12 years we had a series of events not just bearable, not exactly pleasant. I could write a book if I tell my life. In 2000 I was diagnosticated with disseminated lupus erithematosus and from there went all the problems. I had to quit college (I went to law places no fee but because the hospitalizations due to lupus I lost the place with no fee and I was placed at a fee. Then because of my health condition, i had to be hospitalized long enough periods, and then weekly do visits to Tg Mures (there is my doctor), because of the medicines that were not compensated at that time, I did not face the situation so I was forced to quit the College. Without medical advice and without knowing my parents (they find out late that I work), I engaged at Soft Aplicativ si Servicii and then to other employers (now I am in child allowance, in child raising benefit). Over the years, although health has stabilised, together with my family I have gone through the other issues (dad went into unemployment, and then he left without any income. Because of the age he didn’t find a job. Because the only incomm was that of my mother I decided to take the money I have stored for school and give it to the family so they could handle at that time. Due to the stress and all the problems my dad came to diabetes and hypertension, and mother who had health problems before has gotten worse symptoms. In 2007 I met my husband, with whom I got married in 2008. The wedding we have done we did it alone without any help but through a bank loan (after which we have to pay for another 7 years). Both my parents and my mother-in-law(my father-in-law passed away 8 years ago) went through hard times, we have not had claim to help us with anything. Because I wanted children very much, after a discussion i had with Dr. from Targu Mures when I ve been at a general control we decided to get pregnant. Currently, in terms of health, I feel relatively well. I never made analyses for lupus since I was pregnant and that’s because the financial situation and also because of the fact that unfortunately in Sibiu they are not doing "special" analyses of this disease. You have chose either to make them in private reward system either to go in a University Centre like Tg. Mures, Cluj, Bucharest that too with high costs. I know it seems unconscious from me but when you have to choose between you and your child, you choose your child even if your health is usefull for your baby, because we all know that a child needs his parents. Since the beginning of 2011 trying desperately to find a job, I want to give up compensation but unfortunately until so far all attempts have failed. I know very well what I want, I want to break that string of bad luck. I gave up all I could give, I gave the car, I gave up our wedding rings, all this because we need to buy food. So disperately is our situation.
I want to be able to pass all obstacles, I want to finish college and not to be forced to quit because I don’t have money, I want to succeed, even if later than others , I want to realize myself as a person and also professionally. I always wanted to be able to offer children a home. Believe me I came to this extreme act, I dare to write and implore help, ask for help because I don’t know what else I can do. I disperate need someone help us. I'm afraid to think what can bring us the day of tomorrow, I'm afraid to go to hospital and to wake up that the dr. tells me we have to do more tests, I’m afraid that I will have to take recipes that are not fully compensated, I'm afraid because I don’t know what "culinary improvisation" to make to offer to my familly something to eat.
Im hoping that someone will give us an helping hand, that’s why I will give you the following acounts :
RO30RNCB0233085583070003 ; swift code: RNCBROBU - in USD
RO57RNCB0233085583070002 ; swift code: RNCBROBU - in EURO
both accounts are opened at Banca Comerciala Romana - Sibiu
We need 1,500 euro to get up to date with debts (not including university taxes because for it we have to pay 250 euro so we will freeze this university year) and to liquidate a loan made to an IFN, loan for wich we pay monthly a great interest. I know it's a large sum, but I do not know ... I hope that if you can not help us, you may know someone who could help us. In the situation in which we are, any amount, no matter how small, would mean to us enormously.
Thank you for your time reading email,
Respectfully
Claudia Bobe
